Child Abuse in the Hare Krishna
Movement:1971-1986
E.
Burke Rochford, Jr. with Jennifer
Heinlein
[continued]
In still other instances the administration of the school in Vrindavan
apparently sought to hide the abuse taking place there during the early
1980s.
He [Headmaster] knowingly covered-up . . . There are
two or three incidents that I can think of where I was beaten or something
happened to me. He would take
me into his room and he'd lock me in there for like a day with him and he
was like constantly preaching to me and so finally I just went ‘Okay! I
won't say anything to anybody. It didn't happen!’ And he would let me
out of the room. (Interview 1993)28
On final analysis it seems clear that the gurukula became an institution unto itself, in Goffman's (1961)
terms, a ‘total institution.’ Within
the gurukula children remained
largely separate from the day-to-day lives of their parents, and, very
often, from ISKCON community life more generally.
From an institution meant to train and educate, the gurukula instead became the functional equivalent of an orphanage.
As one teacher from this period remarked.
The whole scenario set up an orphanage . . . Even
though you have kids with parents. Because we didn't allow the parents to
become part of their children's lives. (Interview 1997)
Avoiding
Child Abuse: Resources and Victimisation
Although my focus thus far has sought to understand a number of factors
and processes that contributed to child abuse within ISKCON's schools, I
now want to consider why some young people did not experience abuse and
neglect. As I have already suggested, a proportion of the students who
attended the gurukula during the
1970s and 1980s escaped being victims of child abuse.
This happened despite the fact that in some cases their classmates
were targeted for abuse, while they were spared.
Perhaps the most obvious factor in whether a child was abused or not,
related to the school environment itself.
It seems that some gurukulas
experienced far less child abuse, while others were defined by neglect and
abuse. To a significant
degree, where a student was sent to gurukula
had a profound influence on whether he or she became targets of abuse.
Perhaps the most vivid example is provided by the schools in India,
where abuse and neglect were, by all reports, commonplace.
Since only adolescent boys were sent to the schools in India they
faced far more abuse than their female counterparts.
In the United States several of ISKCON's schools also experienced
relatively high levels of child abuse (for example, Dallas, Seattle, New
Vrindaban), whereas others experienced considerably less (for example,
Bhaktivedanta Village, California; New Talavan, Mississippi).
It appears also that child abuse was far less prevalent in Europe
and Australia than in either India or North America.
But what explains these differences?
I think several things. First
some schools had a more stable gurukula
staff
both
academic and ashram teachers, as well as the school's administration. While teachers in these schools may have been more
devoted to working in the gurukula,
they also were able to establish enduring and caring relationships with
the children they worked with. Two
former gurukula students suggest
why a particular school proved especially positive for them in ways that
highlight the role of the teacher.
It was M[other] Kutila who changed our lives and who
let us know that someone could love us; that devotees did love one
another. I swear for the
first week I thought I was a princess.
We were never hit any more, we had all new clothes, our own bags,
filled with our own soap, brushes and hot water showers.
It was then that I knew I had a mother and father, they were Kutila
and Kuladri (her husband). (Author's emphasis; Devi Dasi, K. 1990:1).
One of the high points of my life in gurukula
was because the teacher, (name), took us in as his sons (original Vedic
standard) and treated us like adults.
We had incredible camaraderie as well as growth
including
fitness, mental strength, creativity and Krishna Consciousness. (Second
Generation Survey 1992
93)
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